I guess some of
you are familiar with the facepalm-indulcing discussion that went down on
tothetune over whether or not Frank Iero is a women hating sex offender, but if you're not,
here's a link to the chaos.
A part of my brain is urging me to go back to that thread and mock those bitches into submission. Twist and turn both arguments (mine and theirs) to a point where they don't even remember what the original discussion was all about (which was my original intent last night, but, you know, unlike bitter anons, I actually have a real life that demanded my attention), but I decided it's not worth giving them the satisfaction. That discussion thread is dead. Subject is over. Time to move on.
But, you know, it really does bother me. Not that they think I'm a "sick fuck who needs to shut up" (by the way, nice job, mods. My 'vagina owner' comment gets deleting for being offensive, but calling someone a sick fuck isn't?), because those are bitter losers who hide behind anonymity to rave about how everyone's wrong but them, when, truly, they're just really fucking pissed that the person they romanticize doesn't really add up to the real life version of said person; what really bothers me is their arrogance. Their twisted sense of self-righteousness.
I think it goes without saying that none of us actually
knows any of those bandom boys we all love gush about so much. We may have a general idea of what their personalities are like and once or twice we get a decent notion of what their opinions on life, politics and sexuality are, but when it comes right down to it, we don't
know them. They're strangers we follow and analyse and judge and wish for. They're bound to us by this weird sense of gratitude (we pay their bills, we admire their work, we make their dreams come true, we keep their jobs by lingering when others wouldn't) and duty. They do what's possible to give us what we want and, in return, we stay.
If you ask me, that's one hell of a fucked relationship all on its own. And I'm just saying in general. For the most part, us, the followers, lead regular lives. We have families and jobs and school to worry about. Even if we care deeply for these strangers, deep down we know they're not an effective part of our lives and owe us nothing more than artistic awesomeness.
The problem lies in the specifics.
By 'specifics' I really mean 'psychoes'. They appear in different form for every band, I guess. PATD psychoes try get Brendon's blood samples and give them pubic-filled cookies. Beatles psychoes murder John Lennon. FOB psychoes start a band to get Pete's attention
(and name it Panic! At the Disco). MCR psychoes demand they act like the caricture of themselves 24/7 and lack sense of humor.
I'm an idealist, okay. I want the world to be painted in rainbow colors to flag up sexual diversity; I want women to be seen as equal to men; I want every single person on the planet to have a home; I want the civil wars that destroy lives and countries around the glove to be over right-fucking-now; I want children never to painfully die of incurable diseases; I want to eliminate the rule that states that, unless you're white, western, christian, upper middle class or above, size 0 or below and young, you don't belong in society. I want a better world, like everyone else and I
do believe one of the many keys for that to be achieved is through words and ideas and who better to spread words and implement ideas in people's heads than celebrities? The fact that one of my favorite bands is so passionate about changing the world and saving lives is something of which I'm crazy proud of.
Do you know what else I'm proud of? Being aware of the fact that they're also humans, therefore flawed. Like the rest of us. Most importantly, they're
entitled to be flawed like the rest of us.
Some fans are so dead set on seeing them as something close to a semi-deity, they tend to forget they
aren't. They're people. They make statements in public, but then tweet something that contradicts it. Wow, shocking.
As a normal human being, I often joke around with my friends or say things when I'm really frustrated that go agains't my actual politic view of the world. I'm a pacifist, I disagree with violence so hard I could punch it in the face. I am also, as it's clear, very fond of dark humor.
Does saying that I'd like to punch violence in the face, even though I'm a pacifist, make me a hypocrite who needs to shut the fuck up? Or does it mean I enjoy to draw a reaction from people? Preferrably laughs, but I'll take what I can get.
I never claimed I knew any of those guys I look up to so much, but I can spot a joke when I see it. Frank saying he'd like to punch he Snow God in its vagina clearly meant he was frustrated as fuck (for the wheather being so cold) and he thought it'd be funny to share his displeaure in a comical form. On his twitter. Like many of us do, on a regular basis.
Is it rocket science? Is it so hard to understand? I really doubt it. But a hater hardly needs a context and all they want is fuel for their bitterness. And, oh, are they bitter. They're bitter because this person they look up to had the opportunities they hadn't. They're bitter because they'll never be as close to them as they wished. They're bitter because they had a romanticized idea of said idol and they sometimes act in a way that contradicts that fantasy. They're bitter and
angry.
Also? Cowards and inconsiderate. They want to shout their anger at everyone that dares point out they're wrong, but don't show their face, so they spit ignorance anonymously. They're so quick to forget everything their idol's done in the past, because he made a comment that didn't sit right with them. Oh, man. It's war time.
And to such unreasonable, coward,
pathetic creatures, here's a little advice:
get a life, bitches.